Sell me on American girls

[Santa Anna's Leg]

I've been seeing a girl who, despite being a 2nd generation immigrant, is decidedly American in the 'almost one of the guys' way.

Don't get me wrong, I don't begrudge her for being herself and I'm happy that she's so comfortable in the world. Obviously there's plenty to admire about the girl, or I wouldn't be interested, but she uses phrases like 'getting laid' and 'sausage fest'.

I guess I'm struggling with the lack of femininity. I'd grown used to women who behave like a lady and expect to be treated like one.

[brantshawks]

Sounds like she's 1st generation hermaphrodite.

[nolookpass]

what happened with the Mex?

[Jimmie Dimmick]

chicks like that are fun to date, but you don't want them to meet your mother

[Mr. Hawk]

I'd opine, but this thread really isn't intellectually stimulating or interesting for me.

[CUIHAWk]

Fixed
chicks like that are fun to bang, but you don't want them to meet your mother

[HFBM]

i thought you were living with that girl from mexico the past few years?

[Jimmie Dimmick]

I'd opine, but this thread really isn't intellectually stimulating or interesting for me.

http://www2.nationalreview.com/images/pic_homie_flat_04-13-10_A.jpg

[Gushawk]

I think you are overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Spend time with women, or a woman, you enjoy being around. If that stuff "bugs you," consider why. It may be that it just offends part of who you are, but it also may not.

[Maury Povich]

I've been seeing a girl who, despite being a 2nd generation immigrant, is decidedly American in the 'almost one of the guys' way.

Don't get me wrong, I don't begrudge her for being herself and I'm happy that she's so comfortable in the world. Obviously there's plenty to admire about the girl, or I wouldn't be interested, but she uses phrases like 'getting laid' and 'sausage fest'.

I guess I'm struggling with the lack of femininity. I'd grown used to women who behave like a lady and expect to be treated like one.


I'm struggling with the last line. Aren't you from Charles City?

[nolookpass]

i thought you were living with that girl from mexico the past few years?

santa anas leg=spanish for "hung like a termite"

[brantshawks]

I've been seeing a girl who, despite being a 2nd generation immigrant, is decidedly American in the 'almost one of the guys' way.

Don't get me wrong, I don't begrudge her for being herself and I'm happy that she's so comfortable in the world. Obviously there's plenty to admire about the girl, or I wouldn't be interested, but she uses phrases like 'getting laid' and 'sausage fest'.

I guess I'm struggling with the lack of femininity. I'd grown used to women who behave like a lady and expect to be treated like one.


I'm struggling with the last line. Aren't you from Charles City?

How dare you.

[Legend12]

I'd grown used to women who behave like a lady and expect to be treated like one.

When did "staying at home while boyfriend I live with hits on other chicks" = "being treated like a lady"?

[brantshawks]

i thought you were living with that girl from mexico the past few years?

She left him for a scientist.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

I think you are overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Spend time with women, or a woman, you enjoy being around. If that stuff "bugs you," consider why. It may be that it just offends part of who you are, but it also may not.

I do enjoy being around this girl, but this is my one hangup. There are certainly issues with any girl you're gonna meet, I'm just trying to get over this one.

[Debit One]

I think you are overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Spend time with women, or a woman, you enjoy being around. If that stuff "bugs you," consider why. It may be that it just offends part of who you are, but it also may not.

I do enjoy being around this girl, but this is my one hangup. There are certainly issues with any girl you're gonna meet, I'm just trying to get over this one.

Why try to get over it? You aren't attracted to women who use crude language. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I'd say that it is admirable.

Hanging out with women like this is how you end up as the father of a two year old who talks about "gay ass" things.

[Glen]

I think you are overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Spend time with women, or a woman, you enjoy being around. If that stuff "bugs you," consider why. It may be that it just offends part of who you are, but it also may not.

I do enjoy being around this girl, but this is my one hangup. There are certainly issues with any girl you're gonna meet, I'm just trying to get over this one.

Why try to get over it? You aren't attracted to women who use crude language. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I'd say that it is admirable.

Hanging out with women like this is how you end up as the father of a two year old who talks about "gay ass" things.

While I agree with this, it may also just be a learning curve if you're recently coming out of a relationship. My wife, when I first met her, was unlike many of the girls I had dated previoulsy. It took me awhile to appreciate the change.

[blacklespaul]

I have a trade mark on sausage fest. She owes me $.10 every time she uses it.

[MikeyJoe]

I think you are overanalyzing/overthinking the situation. Spend time with women, or a woman, you enjoy being around. If that stuff "bugs you," consider why. It may be that it just offends part of who you are, but it also may not.

I do enjoy being around this girl, but this is my one hangup. There are certainly issues with any girl you're gonna meet, I'm just trying to get over this one.

Why try to get over it? You aren't attracted to women who use crude language. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I'd say that it is admirable.

Hanging out with women like this is how you end up as the father of a two year old who talks about "gay ass" things.
+ 1

It seems like for some reason you feel that it's not an admirable quality in yourself that you're attracted to women who "act like ladies". What's wrong with that? It's not chauvinistic or wrong, any more than it would be wrong for a woman to be more attracted to men who act like a gentleman.

[Mr. Hawk]

To the subject at hand, check out the popular chick flicks and things like Sex and The City. This is cultural. For some reason, women like use really foul and explicit language when around each other. It's weird. It is absolutely the fault of movies and TV.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

It seems like for some reason you feel that it's not an admirable quality in yourself that you're attracted to women who "act like ladies". What's wrong with that? It's not chauvinistic or wrong, any more than it would be wrong for a woman to be more attracted to men who act like a gentleman.

But no girl is ever going to check every box.

If she's truly exceptional in many ways, and she is, am I to just break it off because she doesn't fit some of my wish list coming in?

[newsbreaker]

It seems like for some reason you feel that it's not an admirable quality in yourself that you're attracted to women who "act like ladies". What's wrong with that? It's not chauvinistic or wrong, any more than it would be wrong for a woman to be more attracted to men who act like a gentleman.

But no girl is ever going to check every box.

If she's truly exceptional in many ways, and she is, am I to just break it off because she doesn't fit some of my wish list coming in?

Not all items on a "wish list" are equal. Either this particular item is something so fundamentally important that you can't negotiate on it, or it's not.

[MikeyJoe]

It seems like for some reason you feel that it's not an admirable quality in yourself that you're attracted to women who "act like ladies". What's wrong with that? It's not chauvinistic or wrong, any more than it would be wrong for a woman to be more attracted to men who act like a gentleman.

But no girl is ever going to check every box.

If she's truly exceptional in many ways, and she is, am I to just break it off because she doesn't fit some of my wish list coming in?
Like all things in life, I guess you just have to decide which of her boxes is the most important.

/rimshot

[valp0guy]

No pics of American Girls = two weeks, tops.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Either this particular item is something so fundamentally important that you can't negotiate on it, or it's not.

You seem to have gotten the point of my creating this thread. So far I've only found people encouraging me to hang onto my hang up, rather than help me get over it.

[Debit One]

It seems like for some reason you feel that it's not an admirable quality in yourself that you're attracted to women who "act like ladies". What's wrong with that? It's not chauvinistic or wrong, any more than it would be wrong for a woman to be more attracted to men who act like a gentleman.

But no girl is ever going to check every box.

If she's truly exceptional in many ways, and she is, am I to just break it off because she doesn't fit some of my wish list coming in?

I think that it is fine to bend on things on your wish list such as "blonde," "over 5'2", "likes to snowboard," etc. Things that are more telling as to character, or that you would simply find embarrassing to be associated with, not so much.

[MikeyJoe]

Seriously answer: The conventional wisdom says don't go into a relationship expecting people to change. That's true to a certain degree. People who care about one another can absolutely decide to make changes in themselves if they want to. You just have to decide two things:

1) Is this something that you're going to want her to change? In other words, it bothers you now. Be honest and don't just think that you can "get over" this. Are you going to be sitting here two years from now still saying "she's great but I just wish she ...."? If so,

2) Is this something that you think she can change, or you think is fair to ask of her to change? Asking someone to change something that may be fundamental to their personality is a little different than wanting someone to be more organized. Are some of the qualities you admire in her an indirect result of this aspect of her you find unappealing?

[newsbreaker]

It seems like for some reason you feel that it's not an admirable quality in yourself that you're attracted to women who "act like ladies". What's wrong with that? It's not chauvinistic or wrong, any more than it would be wrong for a woman to be more attracted to men who act like a gentleman.

But no girl is ever going to check every box.

If she's truly exceptional in many ways, and she is, am I to just break it off because she doesn't fit some of my wish list coming in?

I think that it is fine to bend on things on your wish list such as "blonde," "over 5'2", "likes to snowboard," etc. Things that are more telling as to character, or that you would simply find embarrassing to be associated with, not so much.

This is mostly correct, IMO.

Superficial things should absolutely be "negotiable." The question here is the root of this particular trait. Is she crude because she has a crude personality, or is she just a young person talking like the kids do? Is this something that will make you not want to be around her later? Is this something - and to me this is most important - that indicates the traits and values she will attempt to teach her children?

Personally, I could handle a little future embarrassment. Passing that crude behavior on to the kids, however, I could not. It's impossible to say without knowing the individual in question.

[MikeyJoe]

Either this particular item is something so fundamentally important that you can't negotiate on it, or it's not.

You seem to have gotten the point of my creating this thread. So far I've only found people encouraging me to hang onto my hang up, rather than help me get over it.
Like I said above - it seems like you feel guilty about this for some reason. Why call it a hang up? There's nothing wrong with being more attracted to different personality types. You wouldn't consider it a hang up if someone told you they like outgoing women more than quiet women, would you?

Is this the case of you wanting to be the kind of guy who's more attracted to Scarlett than Melanie?

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Is this the case of you wanting to be the kind of guy who's more attracted to Scarlett than Melanie?

I don't think so. It's probably more of a case of me not being ready for a relationship, but worrying about turning one down because she's too good to pass up, and then trying to poke holes in that incredibleness so that I have my excuse not to get into said relationship.

[Debit One]

By the way, why does the thread title read as though this is a problem that is widespread among American women?

[newsbreaker]

By the way, why does the thread title read as though this is a problem that is widespread among American women?

Because they are a lot of whore-mouthed wenches?

[Debit One]

Personally, I could handle a little future embarrassment. Passing that crude behavior on to the kids, however, I could not.

I do not know of a single person who engages in crude behavior, but has effectively kept their children from exhibiting such behavior.

As for the embarrassment part of it, you are a stronger (or maybe weaker) man than me if you can be happily in a relationship with someone whose behavior you routinely find to be embarrassing.

[SL]

Is this the case of you wanting to be the kind of guy who's more attracted to Scarlett than Melanie?

I don't think so. It's probably more of a case of me not being ready for a relationship, but worrying about turning one down because she's too good to pass up, and then trying to poke holes in that incredibleness so that I have my excuse not to get into said relationship.

Does this woman want a relationship with you? Is she expecting one? If so, you may want to give some thought to her, too. Are you prepared to hurt her if you're not ready or willing to give 100% to the relationship?

[newsbreaker]

Personally, I could handle a little future embarrassment. Passing that crude behavior on to the kids, however, I could not.

I do not know of a single person who engages in crude behavior, but has effectively kept their children from exhibiting such behavior.

As for the embarrassment part of it, you are a stronger (or maybe weaker) man than me if you can be happily in a relationship with someone whose behavior you routinely find to be embarrassing.

I'm not in such a relationship, but my wife is. ;)

You're probably right on the first part, however I do know a number of people who were quite crude at a certain age and the "grew out of it" into relatively normal adults.

[TallGrass]

I do enjoy being around this girl, but this is my one hangup. There are certainly issues with any girl you're gonna meet, I'm just trying to get over this one.

Why try to get over it? You aren't attracted to women who use crude language. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I'd say that it is admirable.

Hanging out with women like this is how you end up as the father of a two year old who talks about "gay ass" things.

While I agree with this, it may also just be a learning curve if you're recently coming out of a relationship. My wife, when I first met her, was unlike many of the girls I had dated previoulsy. It took me awhile to appreciate the change.
You could say that again...

http://www.health-res.com/EX/08-01-02/bearded_lady1.jpg

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Does this woman want a relationship with you? Is she expecting one? If so, you may want to give some thought to her, too. Are you prepared to hurt her if you're not ready or willing to give 100% to the relationship?

That's where I'm at.

I do not know of a single person who engages in crude behavior, but has effectively kept their children from exhibiting such behavior.

As for the embarrassment part of it, you are a stronger (or maybe weaker) man than me if you can be happily in a relationship with someone whose behavior you routinely find to be embarrassing.

It's not that bad Debit. This is a staggeringly successful woman. She knows how to edit. These crude behaviors only come out where she feels comfortable with them. Apparently she thinks I'm cool with it, so she goes there.

[Glen]

Why try to get over it? You aren't attracted to women who use crude language. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, I'd say that it is admirable.

Hanging out with women like this is how you end up as the father of a two year old who talks about "gay ass" things.

While I agree with this, it may also just be a learning curve if you're recently coming out of a relationship. My wife, when I first met her, was unlike many of the girls I had dated previoulsy. It took me awhile to appreciate the change.
You could say that again...

http://www.health-res.com/EX/08-01-02/bearded_lady1.jpg

I am attempting to raise the level of discourse on this God-forsaken board, and you sully the effort by posting this?

Plus my thing for bearded chicks was simply a phase.

[Monster]

Glen likes a little sack-tickle.

[Serenity]

http://americangirl.files.wordpress.com/2007/08/mini-dolls-1.jpg

Sorry, just had to post it :)

[OlePeep]

This is a staggeringly successful woman.

translated: she's fat ( I mean gorda, sorry)

[funnelcake]

you sound like you are pretty judgemental and a bit high maitenence......in other words you like her success and like screwing her but have problems commiting so you are blowing something out of proportion to sabotage it. It is the next logical step after being "edgy" and sabotaging relationships with foreign chicks.

congrats on your progression

[Mr. Hawk]

you sound like you are pretty judgemental and a bit high maitenence......
Sal? I guess that never really occurred to me at all.

[HawkinSECCountry]

Does this woman want a relationship with you? Is she expecting one? If so, you may want to give some thought to her, too. Are you prepared to hurt her if you're not ready or willing to give 100% to the relationship?

That's where I'm at.

I do not know of a single person who engages in crude behavior, but has effectively kept their children from exhibiting such behavior.

As for the embarrassment part of it, you are a stronger (or maybe weaker) man than me if you can be happily in a relationship with someone whose behavior you routinely find to be embarrassing.

It's not that bad Debit. This is a staggeringly successful woman. She knows how to edit. These crude behaviors only come out where she feels comfortable with them. Apparently she thinks I'm cool with it, so she goes there.

I don't know what's happened to you, Sal. I've seen you be relaxed and have a good time with people. I know you know how to joke around and have a good time,and we've had a lot of fun when we've gone drinking in the past. But why are you constantly looking down your nose at everyone? That is such a bullshit and arrogant way to be with people. When did you turn into such a fucking killjoy? Seriously?

I'd be afraid to hang out with you these days. Especially if every comment or joke I made was under constant scrutiny from you. That would suck, if I was made that to believe that just because I was hanging out with you, that I'd have to temper my personality as to not offend you.

Why not learn how to lighten up a bit and not be so freaking judgmental of people and the perceived flaws you have of them. No one is going to be perfect. And neither are you. Have you ever figured that maybe there are things about you that drive her nuts?

[Debit One]

This is a staggeringly successful woman. She knows how to edit.

She knows how to edit? Is that some sort of measure of her success?

[SL]

This is a staggeringly successful woman. She knows how to edit.

She knows how to edit? Is that some sort of measure of her success?

That confused me, too. I mean, MH knows how to edit his posts dozens of times. Are you attracted to MH?

[Santa Anna's Leg]

But why are you constantly looking down your nose at everyone? That is such a bullshit and arrogant way to be with people. When did you turn into such a fucking killjoy? Seriously?


Umm...this girl outperforms me in nearly every measurable way. It'd be a little tough for me to look down my nose at her.


I'd be afraid to hang out with you these days. Especially if every comment or joke I made was under constant scrutiny from you. That would suck, if I was made that to believe that just because I was hanging out with you, that I'd have to temper my personality as to not offend you.


Dovetailing with the above, what I look for in a life partner is decidedly different than what I look for in a friend. I know this girl is objectively wonderful, I'm just trying to get over some thing she's missing that I've grown to desire in a woman.

[Debit One]

I know this girl is objectively wonderful, I'm just trying to get over some thing she's missing that I've grown to desire in a woman.

So you feel that you be gaga over her but aren't, and are beating yourself up over it.

There's no forcing yourself to be attracted to someone, Sal. It's either there or it isn't.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

This is a staggeringly successful woman. She knows how to edit.

She knows how to edit? Is that some sort of measure of her success?

You were talking about her presumed crudeness and tendency to embarrass. I'm just saying, people who don't know how to edit themselves are likely to make career limiting mistakes.

She's not really over-the-top in that department, I'm just used to a different thing.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

There's no forcing yourself to be attracted to someone, Sal. It's either there or it isn't.

Maybe, but I'm rebounding a little too, so it's hard to calibrate how I feel.

[Monster]

Sal's getting the itch to settle down, and is looking for an excuse not to.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Also, I know you all despise me, but please let the personal stuff go and hook me up with some detached human relationship analysis.

[Debit One]

By the way, why does the thread title read as though this is a problem that is widespread among American women?

I'm still curious about this one.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

By the way, why does the thread title read as though this is a problem that is widespread among American women?

I'm still curious about this one.

Well, I think that tendency to speak so crassly, and generally be like one of the guys, is a little more common for American girls than for other non-street girls of the world.

[Monster]

In all seriousness, I completely agree that this issue can be a hang-up. Mrs. Monster is fairly soft-spoken and doesn't use language like you mentioned early on. I'm turned off by women who try to speak in such a manner, and personally think it would be a deal breaker. In fact, the way younger people in general tend to speak to each other these days is an issue for me. I'm not sure how two people who care about each other can be so crass and rude with each other and not lose intimacy.

[Spring Hawk]

Was in a similar position in grad school. Just coming out of a relationship, had a girl that was a great friend, but definitely had much the same "one of the guys" attitude like you describe. At the time, I was pretty convinced that that was the reason why I didn't want to go out even tho she had pushed it pretty hard for a bit. Looking back, I feel that that was a red flag that I grabbed onto because it was easier to focus on that than the fact that I wasn't really ready to date anyone else. Sure, that is probably something you can move past, but if that isn't actually the issue, you'll just find another way to blow it up, and, if you're like me, in a much more spectacular way than just putting a halt to it now. :-)

[HawkinSECCountry]

By the way, why does the thread title read as though this is a problem that is widespread among American women?

I'm still curious about this one.

Well, I think that tendency to speak so crassly, and generally be like one of the guys, is a little more common for American girls than for other non-street girls of the world.

I think you're wrong on American girls vs. Other girls in the world. It's how society is evolving(or devolving) Most American girls I know don't use that much vulgar language. I know a lot of cuban/puerto rican/dominican girls that swear up a storm. When I was in the UK, some of the most foul mouthed people I knew where women.

If you really like this woman....gently drop hints about her language. If she doesn't get the hint, stop hanging around her. When she asks why....politely tell her.

BTW.....I don't think anyone here despises you at all.(those of us that actually know you) But you do make it kind of hard to get a long with you at times. Regardless, I don't think I'd turn down having a beer with you. But you do seem to have changed significantly since I saw you last. At least on the boards.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

SEC,
If you're trying to make a general point about my board behavior that you haven't liked, fine. But I don't know what about this thread might have set you off.

[bearbull24.5]

Nothing wrong with a classy and intelligent chick that likes to say fuck a lot

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Nothing wrong with a classy and intelligent chick that likes to say fuck a lot

While there's no questioning her intelligence, I'm worried the classy part is imperiled by saying fuck a lot.

Balls.

[Mrs. G]

Few random thoughts here:

1. I believe not too long ago, you were on here whining about your previous "acts like a lady" girlfriend who expected you to get up in the morning and shovel your car out of a snowdrift so she wouldn't have to walk a block and half to work.

2. You imply the new gal's behavior is "manly". This is not a good path to go down. If you find the behavior in and of itself distasteful (and wouldn't behavior that way yourself), that's okay . . . . but to say "I don't like her acting that ways because she is female" is just plain wrong. Gender stereotypes are just about as useful as the word spic.

3. This woman is not right for you, if she were, you'd be looking to what is in her heart rather than casual mannerisms that irritate you. At the end of the day, you and only you, will pick your mate. . . . not your mother, not your friends, not your boss, not your co-workers, so it will only matter what you think and not what anyone else thinks (I shudder to think of what I would have ended up married to had I listened to and/or cared about what my family of origin thought I should pick). Perfect doesn't exist SAL, but then again, forever is a mighty long time, so I suggest you continue to be picky.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Balls.

[Santa Anna's Leg]

Nothing wrong with a classy and intelligent chick that likes to say fuck a lot

While there's no questioning her intelligence, I'm worried the classy part is imperiled by saying fuck a lot.

Balls.

In case I was being too subtle, the random 'balls' was meant to illustrate that I'm aware of the double standard applying.

Then again, I don't think it's terribly abhorrent that I wouldn't lay down with a human that looked and acted like me.

[bearbull24.5]

Nothing wrong with a classy and intelligent chick that likes to say fuck a lot

While there's no questioning her intelligence, I'm worried the classy part is imperiled by saying fuck a lot.

Balls.

In case I was being too subtle, the random 'balls' was meant to illustrate that I'm aware of the double standard applying.

Then again, I don't think it's terribly abhorrent that I wouldn't lay down with a human that looked and acted like me.

Well I've always pictured you as being a very grotesque person so I don't blame you

[fuisu98]

Ok, so she has the ability to edit and subdue her crass behavior when she deems appropriate? If that is the case then I dont see the issue. It's obvious that she is comfortable around you, enough so that she lets it all hang out, so to speak. However if put into a formal setting or even a semi-formal social setting it sounds like she is smart enough to know that she should tone it down. To me that doesnt seem like a fault at all.

Who cares if she says fuck around you and your friends if she can tone it down in professional and formal settings.

Why not keep it going and when it comes to a setting where it is borderline let her know that it needs to be toned down a bit. If she isnt accepting of that then it probably isnt a good fit.

In your mind you have to do the leg work, is it really worth it to give up an incredible person because of a single trait?


I hope this makes sense as I feel I am just rambling a bit.

[Monster]

I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around a woman who talks like a man. What a turn off.

[HawkinSECCountry]

SEC,
If you're trying to make a general point about my board behavior that you haven't liked, fine. But I don't know what about this thread might have set you off.

Nothing set me off at all. I was making general comment. I probably read your first post incorrectly as more of a shot at American women in general, than this one particular woman.

Now that I know what you're getting on about. I tend to agree with you.

[ChipHilton]

Well, east coast girls are hip, I really dig those styles they wear
And the southern girls with the way they talk,
They knock me out when I'm down there.
The midwest farmers' daughters really make you feel alright
And the northern girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night.

[hawkchick79]

I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around a woman who talks like a man. What a turn off.

You've been around me.

[funnelcake]

I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around a woman who talks like a man. What a turn off.

You've been around me.

different

[RobertIngersoll]

http://directoryofpasadena.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/lso-americangirl0228.jpg

What's the controversey over American Girls? Sure, they've found a not-so-subtle way to part parents from their money. But little girls love them, it makes it easy to know what to give for bday and xmas gifts, and the movie wasn't half-bad...

[Natty Bumppo]

This thread went in an entirely different direction than I thought it would. Let me see if I can salvage it:

http://fanyard.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/jessica-simpson-on-gq-cover-in-american-flag-bikini-dbu-pants-and-soldier-dog-tags.jpg

http://www.freshalloy.com/files/images/american-flag-model-bikini.jpg

http://badluckcity.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/american-flag-bikini.jpg

[Santa Anna's Leg]

American Girl has now left me blue ballsing it for the third time. That ain't helping to overcome the potty mouth.

[hawkchick79]

American Girl has now left me blue ballsing it for the third time. That ain't helping to overcome the potty mouth.

If you want a lady, then behave like a gentleman and don't let things get to the point where you end up with blue balls your crotchal area is uncomfortably engorged.

If you simply want some chick to bang a woman with whom you can enjoy coitus, then go out and find that.

[funnelcake]

American Girl has now left me blue ballsing it for the third time. That ain't helping to overcome the potty mouth.

If you want a lady, then behave like a gentleman and don't let things get to the point where you end up with blue balls your crotchal area is uncomfortably engorged.

If you simply want some chick to bang a woman with whom you can enjoy coitus, then go out and find that.

dump that foul-mouthed friend with no benefits.......

[bearbull24.5]

(Bachman-Cummings-Kale-Peterson)
(Prologue)
American woman gonna mess your mind
American woman, she gonna mess your mind
American woman gonna mess your mind
American woman gonna mess your mind
Say A,
Say M,
Say E,
Say R,
Say I,
C,
Say A,
N,
American woman gonna mess your mind
American woman gonna mess your mind
American woman gonna mess your mind

American woman, stay away from me
American woman, mama let me be
Don’t come hangin’ around my door
I don’t wanna see your face no more
I got more important things to do
Than spend my time growin’ old with you
,
American woman, listen what I say.

American woman, get away from me
American woman, mama let me be
Don’t come knockin’ around my door
Don’t wanna see your shadow no more
Coloured lights can hypnotize
Sparkle someone else’s eyes
Now woman, I said get away
American woman, listen what I say.

American woman, said get away
American woman, listen what I say
Don’t come hangin’ around my door
Don’t wanna see your face no more
I don’t need your war machines
I don’t need your ghetto scenes
Coloured lights can hypnotize
Sparkle someone else’s eyes
Now woman, get away from me
American woman, mama let me be.

Go, gotta get away, gotta get away
Now go go go
Gonna leave you, woman
Gonna leave you, woman
Bye-bye
Bye-bye
Bye-bye
Bye-bye
You’re no good for me
I’m no good for you
Gonna look you right in the eye.
Tell you what I’m gonna do
You know I’m gonna leave
You know I’m gonna go
You know I’m gonna leave
You know I’m gonna go, woman
I’m gonna leave, woman
Goodbye, American woman
Goodbye, American chick
Goodbye, American broad ....

[RecreationalGynecologist]

Dude..you need to chill and quit sweating the small shit. You cut your teeth drinking at Sherms and Tori's, no need to get all picky now. If you're just looking to get laid, you're probably barking up the wrong tree.. No sense in just wasting your time or her time if you're using a "relationship" to get laid on a regular basis. I'm not sure what happened with your Mexican GF, but you need to loosen up and not worry about stuff like that.