The Lord has been kind to the Captain in the last decade. No fights with any naked or clothed dudes. No promiscuous women soiling my new furniture. Just relative peace and calm. It sounds boring...and it is.
As for judgement, I try and only judge other Christians. I don't appreciate fake Christians any more than most people here do. When you see a cross around the neck of your favorite athlete or movie star, it's almost always a marketing tool rather than a statement of faith. Plus, although my sins have been forgiven, I was a miserable piece of shit before coming to Jesus. I haven't forgotten that.